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The turn of sports movies…

In July I made a list of my favorite movies at that time. Lists are fun and because they are subjective seem to create a lot of discussion and email.

Last time I published a movie list I had a lot of time to enjoy them. While I still occasionally take afternoon naps, it’s really only out of habit rather than need. So I don’t have nearly the time to spare now, but have seen all these films over the last few months just to make sure. Lets be clear I’m a long way from being fully up to speed and while not every day is better than the one before it, the trend is certainly in the correct direction.

So with a tip of the hat to the dreadful film (Bad Teacher) that started my whole movie list thing I present my favorite 10 sporting films.

Slapshot – this would find a place on both my best sports movies and best comedies lists. Who can forget the Hanson brothers, Killer Carlson and of course the appearance of the legend himself, Ogie Ogilthorpe? The best part, they are all based on real people that played in minor league hockey.

Le Mans – If this film does not get your blood pumping there is an issue. It’s not about the dialogue, the story or even Steve McQueen. It’s about the glorious eye-candy (Porsche 917s and Ferrari 512s). The whole movie is summed up in one of McQueen lines “When you’re racing, it… it’s life. Anything that happens before or after… is just waiting.”

Raging Bull – Rewatched this one recently and liked it far more second time round. The boxing scenes are brutal, the self-destruction of Jake LaMotta even more so. De Niro is (of course) brilliant as the unsympathetic boxer and Scorsese filming of the boxing from the ring earned him all sorts of deserved accolades (and an Oscar).

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What Others Dream. We Do.

It’s been a big week at work, the first 787 was delivered. There are a lot of milestones between the launch of a program and delivery, some artificial (“roll-out”) and some very important (certification) . Delivery may be about the most important, it shows not only can we build an aircraft that meets all the regulatory requirements, but we built one that meets the customer’s requirement.

And we are in business because of the customer.

I’ve been on and off this program a number of times. It started seven years ago talking about AGUs, DCUs, ACPs, AMUs and a whole alphabet soup of acronyms. A couple of years later I was pulled back to work some avionics issues and my most recent stint has been working as a manufacturing engineer. It’a all been challenging, it’s all been difficult, but it’s also been a rewarding experience, working with some great people.

It’s nice to sit back and look at what’s been achieved since we sat in a room talking architecture. There is so much more to do, but for a few hours it was fun to sit back and think about the thousands of people all over the world working together every day to do incredible things.

There are lots of pictures around the web of the ceremony Monday, it is a great looking airplane. Randy Tinseths Blog gives a good idea of what it was like to be there.

On the back of my business cards it says “What Others Dream. We Do.” Monday showed what we meant by that.

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This is the dawning of the rest of our lives

The title is taken from the Green Day song “Holiday”, it’s relevant, so go with it.

Last week I was talking to a friend of mine. Mike had had just come back from two weeks touring Northern Italy. He spent a delightful two weeks away from everything driving around Tuscany. He took a relaxing few days in Florence, a few more in Siena, a side trip to Pisa and so much good food, wine and so on, and so on…

Envious… Moi? Perhaps a little.

In England time off is called a “holiday”. Wikipedia says holiday comes from and Old English word that meant special religious days away from toil. In England today it means a day or days of rest or relaxation.

In the US it’s called a Vacation, which means something totally different. It comes from the Latin and means “empty time”. The root is “vacare”, which means “to be empty”. Hmmmm…

Seriously, I love Wikipedia. One thing, please note that Green Day , Weezer, Jet and Madonna (to mention a few) sang songs about Holidays, and not vacations.

It’s well documented that the US has fewer holidays than any other; a quick Google search will show all sorts of facts. Typically they show that France and Italy (35 to 40 days a year) come close to the top of the table, while a long way down is the US (12 or 13 days a year).

It gets even scarier, I work with people who don’t take the full amount every year and have actually lost holiday days because they never took them. I don’t get it.

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Sounders – United

Fun night at RBP, lots of goals and even Sigi admitted he’d do it differently next time. While I do believe in the Dave Clark (Sounder@Heart) promoted hash-tag “#trophiesnotfriendlies”, it was fun to watch a team like United play.

The Boy Wayne, Owen, Anderson and England captain Rio Ferdinand
Royal Brougham Park with 67,000
Giggs, 21 years and 613 appearances for United.
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A little note…

As you have probably noticed, I have been taking something of a hiatus for the last month or so. I just don’t have the energy to do this in the way I think it should be done. Having said that there will be occasional posts, but nothing regular. Thank you for your support, email, comments and so on, keep them coming. It’s so important.

Today is a  non-chemo day to enjoy, a company BBQ for lunch, visit to the physiotherapist “So Toni, how did I do?” “Dave, you flunked every one of the [balence] tests”) and this evening I’m going to have fun with friends.

Again, thank you for all your support. It’s been very meaningful.

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A peek at the drama…

I think I’m an intelligent person who doesn’t suffer fools and while I can be rather cynical about life, I do love what I have today. I am clear there was a time when it was not this way. I lost that, and there were a number of reasons for that and I take responsibility for the decisions that led to myself finding myself in an abusive relationship.

Over the last few weeks I’ve had a lot of email from people, both people I know and strangers. A few were about my ex and the drama in her life, something I’m working to eliminate from mine. It shed some light on recent behaviors and caused me to have someone do some deeper investigations into her. Getting that report back was interesting, but this is not about those discoveries.

A number have been from mutual acquaintances, one was very blunt. It started on about “de-friending” her on Facebook and the reaction she got. “[another former friend] was right, she is a toxic person and I will never have reason to contact her again”

Another read “And the craziness continues – her lies and behavior are truly unbelievable to me – and the way she manipulates everyone and gets away with it!!!  I can’t fathom how all that crap has not caught up to her!!  Have your guard up.  Way up.  I really wish you the very best in your journey, you are a thoughtful guy and we send you our sincerest hopes for your happiness.”

The distance in time and space I have had from my ex since leaving has given me what I needed, perspective.  She loved control, desired power and has a need to be wanted. She was the centre of my universe for a long time, and I worked hard to make sure her life was what she wanted. She is a very smart woman who had spent a lot of time studying at places like the Landmark Education (look it up, it’s usually referred to as a “white collar cult” and teaches some very intense stuff) as both a student and volunteer.

Before I continue, I want to make it clear that my ex did not ‘make’ me do anything. However, I truly believe she enjoyed watching me get away from what I loved and became more compliant to what she wanted.

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Sounders 4 – Rapids 3

It felt good to be back watching Sounders football live again, but before I go on about the Colorado game something slightly different.

Friday night saw Port Vale play in Everett. Vail are a side that plays in League-2 in the UK, level-4 in the football pyramid, they found sponsorship to have a four game North American tour. Vail is managed by Micky Adams, a defender I saw play quite a few times for Coventry City in the Premier League.

Not exactly a high profile tour like Manchester United, but it was an entertaining game Friday night at Goddard Stadium in Everett. Port Vail won 3-1 in their first pre-season game. The Everett Herald had a nice write up today.

Today was not the best game I’ve ever seen, but if anyone had expectations for the Rapids playing clean, flowing football then they have not been paying attention to how Colorado play the game. This Sounders team is doing what good teams do; they are finding ways to win against good sides. They are playing about the best football I’ve seen at Royal Brougham Park in the last three years.

In the last few weeks they have beaten the reigning MLS champions, the regular season league champions, made it to the last four in the cup, took the Timbers apart in their place and taken 16 of the last 18 points on offer. This is a side that is playing good, entertaining football with a lot of confidence. Oh yeah, they are playing Manchester United Wednesday and are just one point off the top of the league. Expectations are high for the Sounders, and they are delivering.

The ball moves rapidly through the midfield and out wide smoothly. Montero has scored four goals in the last week and is a threat every time he has the ball. Rosales, Alonso and Fernandez seem to be in the middle of everything. Fernandez was going past defenders for fun. He had an outstanding game against Colorado.

It’s a little worrying that the Sounders gave up three goals at home. The first was a defensive mistake (like both at Portland last weekend), the other two came when runners lost their markers in the box. All avoidable and Keller was rightfully angry with his defence on the third goal. The home team fell behind early, played some great football came back and made it interesting at the end by allowing it closer than it should have been. That part sounds a lot like last weeks game in Portland and it’s the sort of habit that ends good streaks.

After going 1-0 down in he second minute we did not have to wait long for the equalizer. A great finish gave Fernandez his fifth goal of the year after running past the right back and slotting the ball past the keeper. It was a  really good finish. Levesque got another goal with a nice finish.

Montero had a low header at the far post and is playing the sort of football right now we all hoped to see from him at the start of the year. He is playing the way I think most of us hoped he would when he signed the designated player contract at the beginning of the year. It was a smart move by the Sounders and I think was done to ensure they get compensated when he moves to a bigger league. If he continues to play like this it’s going to be sooner rather than later.

The final goal went to Mauro Rosales, he looked absolutely ecstatic to have scored. This put Seattle up 4-2 with 20 minutes left to play. They made the last few minutes exciting after giving up a soft goal.

It was not a clean game, Colorado play a very physical style of football that is unattractive, but tends to be rather effective in this league. The referee did not help, he did not have a good game. At one point he was in danger of loosing control and was inconsistent in calling fouls.

It was good to watch football being played on proper grass. Not surprisingly after the rain this morning the field played very slowly. I get why we have carpet, but this is how the game is supposed to be played. The freshly laid grass is clearly not rooted well yet; a lot of players were loosing their footing. Even the referee fell on his arse at one point to a rather loud cheer.

Through bitter experience I know this won’t last forever. We’ll see a game or two that get away, but gosh this run is fun to watch. United Wednesday does not count for much, but should be a great celebration of the game with the whole stadium opened up.

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So what place moves you?

Over the last couple of week’s I’ve taken the chance to catch up on my reading and one I read was about architecture (I likes it), I was thinking of those places that really made me stand and think. Yes it’s the beginning of another list of places that have really moved me at some time. I think lists can be fun.

I think my first stop would be on many peoples lists. It’s been a church for a number deities for almost two thousand years. The engineering (yes it comes back to the engineering) was so advanced, the understanding of weight distribution was so far beyond what the rest of the work knew that it would be 1500 years before anything as impressive was built in Europe.

For anyone who has not yet experienced the Pantheon no depiction of it will ever come close to doing it the justice. That is my disclosure. Alas, for a second best alternative, here are my reflections on the Pantheon in Rome.

We arrived in the Piazza della Rotonda slightly jetlagged on a beautiful autumn morning in Rome. The sun was already bright and the Piazza barely showing signs of activity, the crows of tourists were an hour or two away yet. A former traveling companion used to all this “Swiss sightseeing”, I prefer to think of it as “Jetlagged sightseeing” and being up this early is rarely voluntary.

In the piazza is a tall fountain topped by an obelisk standing tall above the fountain. To think that two millennia ago the romans marched to Egypt, with the authority possessed only by victors and took what they liked home.

The obelisk was ancient to the romans, and dates from some where around 1250BC. Today it is hard to understand an empire that reached it height two thousand years ago saw items as antiquities to be shared at home. The British, French, Germans and Dutch all did the same thing; filling their museums with wonders from around the parts of the world they considered theirs.

The Piazza della Rotonda is no different in this respect from dozens of other busy plazas across this quite wonderful city.

The fountain is nothing but a side show, for as you turn around to face the Pantheon and look at the eight symmetrical columns that mark the entrance. The detail in the stone work is astounding, they support a huge façade that reads “M·AGRIPPA·L·F·COS·TERTIVM·FECIT“, this translates to “‘Marcus Agrippa, son of Lucius, Consul for the third time, built this.” The original church was rebuilt twice, so we see the third building on this site.

The original was built by Marcus Agrippa in 27BC, this was destroyed by fire a little over 100 years later and was rebuilt by in 82AD. That building lasted less then thirty years before it too was consumed by fire again. The third building, the one that we see today was commissioned by Hadrian and finished in 126AD.

As you pass under the facade, through the columns you enter the church through giant bronze doors. Your immediate instinct as you step in is to look up at the roof, not just to see the stark contrast of the blue sky through the oculus, but to take in the shear scale of the building. The imagery offered by the oculus is clear, even to a heathen such as I. It symbolizes the entrance to heaven, the place where those who offered their faith here over the centuries believed they were going.

The rotunda itself is largely open, there are a few rows of pews facing the alter on the far wall as you walk in, but otherwise it is left open. The building is a working church and still holds regular catholic services. The interior walls are incredibly detailed; there is something in every corner of the rotunda. Some dates from the 1600, some goes back to the original builders.

When built the Pantheon was dedicated to all the Pagan gods of the Roman Empire. It became the first Roman temple to be converted to Christianity and that’s why it’s been so well preserved over the centuries. Personally I really don’t mind which church it represents, my thoughts on religion are clear and well documented.

So with my ME hat on it’s clear that well over two thousand years ago the Roman Empire understood science, engineering, architecture. Not only did they know this, but understood it in a way that would not be rediscovered for an agonizingly long time, maybe until the great cathedrals were built in the 14 and 1500’s.

I’d argue that even today we don’t see the depth to which the Romans understood and applied the beauty of engineering and architecture to their world. Rome is a city best seen on foot, it’s got so much to see, but is built somehow on a human scale. The Romans left behind indelible marks that today, two-thousand years later are still something to admire and behold.

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I don’t have Brazil on my mind…

I get a mail every day from Amazon with offers on local merchants. Typically it’s been pretty well targeted, cycle stores in Snohomish, book shops in Mill Creek, mens barber in Woodinville and so on. I’m guy, it’s guy stuff and I’ve used got a couple of what I thought were really good deals from it.

Then there was today’s…

“With the Women’s World Cup in full swing, it’s only natural to have Brazil on your mind.”

OK questionable, but it’s been an entertaining Women’s World Cup and the Brazil-USA game was a great game. But I don’t really have Brazil on my mind. It continued…

“And with today’s deal, you can have Brazil on your body, too: Get one Brazilian wax at Seattle Hill Nails & Spa in Everett for just $35 (a $70 value).”

Arghhhhhhhh… But wait, there is more…

“Grab this deal and give unwanted hair a red card.”

I passed on what may have been a great offer, but I think Amazons algorithms need a little more work. Having said that I enjoyed the link with how Amazon river running through Brazil… Nope, apparently it was just me…

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Better than Ambien…

Almost 16 months ago I walked away from a bad relationship, I’d had enough and left. I’ve taken more lessons and discoveries away from this than anything else in my life. To learn from what you do, good and bad, is so important. And I took a shit load of lessons away.

And as emotion filled as the last few years have been the last four weeks have changed my life in many, many ways. There was the obvious confrontation with my mortality, but there has been so much, much more than that. Things change and I’ve said it before, but I do have an incredible life and I am so lucky to be the person I am.

I say this that not as overstatement, but as the truth. My life is so full of great people.

The last four weeks have been pretty intense and I’ve not been the easiest person to be around at times. One of the things that has been wonderful for me is having a good therapist I can work with. By good I mean someone willing to push me to look deep down inside, partner with me through the hard moments rather than agreeing and telling me everything is going to be fine.

I’ve been seeing him for approaching a year and there have been some very, very powerful moments and there is no question he has made a huge difference in my life. I am a very, very different person to the one I was a year ago, and that’s good I needed to be. I’m stronger and feel I’ve learned from errors I made, errors I will never make again.

The therapy thing, as important as it is, is a hard thing for me to talk about. It’s something that is incredibly personal and very intense. I’ve learned a lot of skills that allow me to deal with what’s going on, from my health through to the cyberstalking and attacks.

I talk about this now because the last week was quite incredible. One of things we’ve been working hard on is for want of a better work finding my centre through meditation. I was rather skeptical, it’s a little new-age, with a little hypnotherapy. If you know me, you get it’s not exactly my comfort zone, but it has been quite incredible.

To call it a happy place is such an over simplification and does not do it justice. It’s a very restful place, but that peace is coupled with complete awareness of where I am. It’s difficult to describe, and that’s primarily down to my personal limitations with English.

It’s a place where the world is stark, broken down to simple, discrete items and nothing is hidden or missing. Naked is one word that I’ve used a couple of times in the post therapy debrief. When I’m there it feels really, really naked, and initially I found that very scary and that being afraid was holding me back. Getting to this place has been very challenging and pushed me hard to look in places most of us don’t like too.

There are a lot of emotions floating around me right now and spending a few minutes meditating and relaxing before going to sleep is every bit as effective as an Ambien, without the side effects.

There was a lot more to say on this, maybe I’ll share. I’m well along to road to being the person I know I can be.

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